Sorry for the delay in this post! I woke up around 7:00 a.m. yesterday ready for a shower. To be on the safe side, we all applied scabies cream the night before just in case Tyson had them from his orphanage. That medicine makes my skin crawl, and experience from our last trip in China told me that I might not feel well throughout the day the next day. For whatever reason, my body does not like that medicine. It makes my skin feel clammy the entire next day, light-headed, nauseated, etc. I felt pretty blah in the morning, better in the afternoon, and then terrible after 3:00 p.m. I honestly thought it was something I ate or drank, but Ryan really thinks it is that pesticide. I slept around 15 hours and woke up this morning feeling like a new person.
Regardless of feeling sick, yesterday was a very exciting day for our family! After breakfast, we met up with David, our guide, and the other two families. We brought five gifts for the people who were helping us to process our adoption. This is a standard courtesy in China. First, we stopped at the notary office. We gave her 5 small bottles of hand sanitizer from Bath and Body Works. We have heard that this item is not easy to find and therefore appreciated in China!
|I cannot say enough good things about this kid. He is AMAZING!|
|Ty and Daddy waiting our turn at the Notary's Office|
|Family picture minus Tuck and Bert|
|Nothing sweeter than a Daddy with his son.|
When we were called into the notary's office, Noah sat in the back to play video games. Ryan and I sat in front of the woman's desk while she asked us various questions. For example, she wanted to know the year we were married, how many children we have, etc. She asked if we wanted to proceed with Tyson's adoption, and of course we said yes. After completing the official business, we thanked the notary, and Noah handed her the gift.
|Official Adoption Business|
|Noah staying busy with his 7th birthday present.|
|Who knew being a parent to four children would make me smile this big?!|
|Tyson seems to love riding in the van!|
|Tyson with his Beihai beauty|
|Ty imitating his big brother spinning the balls!|
|He is too cute!|
After this short meeting took place, David helped translate while I asked the assistant director questions about Tyson. This opportunity to learn what makes him scared, how his health has been, how he sleeps at night, who his nanny is, what their hopes for his future are, etc. is so important. We took video of the questions and answers, and I also wrote down her answers as fast as I could. I learned that there are about 20 orphanages in Guangxi province. There are approximately 80 children at Ty's orphanage. She also stated that they employ around 80 nannies, which is incredible! They work different shifts, but I was so thankful to learn that so many adults are present to help the children. However, please understand that children were created to live with families...not within institutions. Their best outcomes occur in an environment of unconditional love, connection, healthy boundaries, security, nurture, etc. The effects of not being raised by their biological families and living in an orphanage for the first parts of their lives will have lasting consequences on my sons' lives. I will say it again - every child deserves a family. The assistant director answered our questions so well! She clearly knew our son very well, and we are grateful for that.
While we were standing out in the lobby area, I was holding Tyson, and Noah was to my left. Out of nowhere, Tyson put out his arms to Noah and leaned into him. Noah quickly put his arms out to catch Ty and just held him. It was SO sweet! Tyson has been super clingy to me but will go to Ryan, too. He has not attempted to be held by anyone else, which is great! It made his desire to be close to Noah in that moment all the sweeter. I mean, look at Noah's great delight in holding his new brother.
|What a special bond these boys will share!!|
|With the adoption official - Tyson is an Abell!|
|With the Munkel family, whose daughter is from Beihai, and the assistant director. How pretty is she?!|
|See the panda steamed buns? So cute!|
Soon after getting back to the hotel, I was feeling super tired. This may have had something to do with writing a blog and talking to friends in the US from 12:30-3:00 a.m. OOPS! Tyson won't sleep in his crib during naps so far, preferring my arms to a bed, so I held him while we both slept on my bed. I woke up a couple hours later feeling TERRIBLE. Ryan took Noah and Ty to the indoor pool at our hotel while I slept some more. How cute are these guys?
|Open your eyes, Ty-Ty!!|